Hajj of the Hearts

Hajj season is fast arriving. For those of us who have not yet been invited to perform this sacred pilgrimage, it is a time of hopeful yearning. For those who have already been to those blessed lands, it is a time of reminiscing and nostalgia. And for those who will soon be standing on the plains of Arafat, it is a time of reflection, gratitude, and submission. In whichever category we find ourselves, we all share the same desire: to be of those who will be responding to the call with “Labayk”.

While it may not be physically possible for all of us to perform the Hajj this year, we can make the intention to bring our hearts closer to Allah ta’ala.

We know that Prophet (SAW) said, “No good deeds are better than what is done in these first ten days of Dhul Hijjah.

These are nine simple ways to keep the feeling of Hajj alive in our hearts and in our homes:

  1. Learn more about the Hajj and follow the events and rituals: Try to learn about the rituals, the history and essence of the Hajj. To make the Hajj real for those of us at home, follow the journey of the Hujjaj each day, with the awareness of where the Hujjaaj are, what they are doing and most importantly, why that are doing it. Reflect on the different places and rituals and what they mean.
  2. Fast regularly: Our teachers recommend that we fast as many days as possible in the first 9 days of Dhul Hijjah, with special emphasis on the day of Arafaat. Encourage children who have started fasting in Ramadaan to fast on this day as well – it serves as an opportunity to teach them about the Hajj and reinforces the good habits learnt during Ramadaan.
  3. Dua and Istighfaar: The first 10 days of Dhul Hijjah have been highlighted to us as blessed days. Maximise on this with dua and istighfaar. Ask Allah ta’ala sincerely for forgiveness without reckoning and ask Him for guidance with ease. Remember to include your family, community, and the entire ummah in these prayers.
  4. Show kindness towards your family: One of the greatest blessings and sometimes one of the greatest challenges is the maintenance of family ties. During these days of Dhul Hijjah reach out to family members with a word of concern or a kind gesture. Sometimes a simple phone call to check in can soften hearts. Remember that the Prophet (SAW) told us that smiling is charity and giving gifts increases the love between people. He also reminded us that one of the acts most loved by Allah ta’ala is the maintenance of family ties.
  5. Do Qurbani: Doing Qurbani connects us directly to the rituals of Hajj. If it is a challenge from a financial perspective, make the niyyah (intention) and try to put in place a savings plan to enable you to perform it next year InshaAllah. We are fortunate that we have many options available to us. Regardless of which route one takes, whether it is done in the home, or in a different country, whether one eats of the meat or distributes it – there is no doubt that there is a special barakah (blessing) that comes from the sacrifice, a sacrifice for the sake of Allah ta’ala.
  6. Recite the Talbiyyah and Takbeer: Let the Labayk roll off your tongue often. If you are blessed with young children, teach it to them and let them hear the meaning. We know Allah ta’ala is All-Hearing, but often in the hustle and bustle of our day, we forget this. There is nothing more powerful than feeling, and knowing, that your Creator can hear you, and that He loves you.
  7. Pray salah: Try to pray all salah on time, with as many of them in congregation as possible. Congregational prayers can also be performed at home with your family or even with your neighbours. Tahajjud salah in these days is a highly recommended act of worship.
  8. Observe the Day of Wuquf: Try and take some time during the day to engage in ibaadah. During this time, think of the Hujaaj on Arafaat, and ask Allah ta’ala to forgive them and accept from them.
  9. Give Sadaqah: Be generous with your wealth and your time. Spend in the way of Allah ta’ala by contributing towards your local masajid and supporting underprivileged communities. There are numerous reputable organisations that accept sadaqah and zakah.

We pray Allah ta’ala accepts our efforts, forgives our sins, and grants us closeness to Him and His Messenger (SAW). Wishing all the Hujaaj a Hajj Maqbool and Mabroor, Ameen. Eid Mubarak to you and your loved ones!

Saleemah Jaffer